Medium Stephen Wakeling Answers Your Questions

By:Stephen Wakeling
Date: 7 April 2013
In Response To: MY SON (SANDRA)

Hello Sandra

The tragic loss of anyone, particular a loved-one, through suicide is heart wrenching and devastating.

For any person, to be at such an unhappy period in their life is a terribly sad situation. We all have times in our physical lives when at certain points we are almost in a period of darkness, as if the world is against us. Although most people are able to climb out of these situations and to move forward, sadly this was not the case for your son. With any form of grief, it can take years, to come to terms with your emotions. In countless situations people cling onto anything to ease their emotional loss and devastation. I am sure that anyone, whether they have moved from this world, in pain, through the situation you describe, because of old age, or natural causes, all wish to make contact with loved-ones in this world. Obvious ways of making contact are through a ‘gifted’ spiritual medium, or, as is often the case, contact is made through the ‘State of Dreams’. Dreams are an ideal way for a loved-one to establish contact and to provide assurances they are well, and only a heartbeat away. To stimulate the process of dreams, I am a believer that a strategically placed photograph of a loved-one or articles that were special, are kept in close proximity to where you sleep. This can be in your bedroom, alternatively, in a place where you relax or meditate. However, personally I am not a prescriber to having a ‘shrine’. I know this scenario helps and assists many people through their anguish, grief and sorrow – but if it works for you great! Nonetheless, I am one-hundred percent certain anyone who has moved into the ‘World of Peace and Light’ will not make contact through an aerosol. The ‘next world’ is totally logical, not illogical. As such, common-sense will ‘always prevail’; in this sad situation I am sorry to say, it doesn’t.

One can only imagine anyone who has lost a loved-one, from this world, through a tragic circumstance, will find it hard to comprehend the reasoning behind the situation you describe. But, my suggestion to you is to seek through the natural channel of spiritual communication, and with time, what you seek will be given, when the time is right and the energy conducive for spiritual intercourse.

Showers of Blessing and Light



With all questions; I take the standpoint that of my answers are generic, as such I take a literal view of the content. In short, I do not give reference to individuals mentioned within the text, or with limited facts, assimilate information about those who have passed into light. The reason is simple. No one person can be in contact with everyone who has passed into eternity, so my answers are general in their structure and composition and reflect a metaphoric answer.

Messages In This Thread

MY SON -- SANDRA -- 1 April 2013
Re: MY SON -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 April 2013